Self Confidence advice

From: Gladys

Public Speaking

Hi Tiff-Anny! Do you know how to be a person who can have confidence especially when speaking in front of people? Because that's what I experienced today. I always feel nervous and do not feel confident when speaking in front of people. And I always felt jealous of people who are confident and not nervous in front of crowds.

Anny

Gladys, Confidence takes practice. Even I still get nervous before I perform in front of lots of people, but the more I perform, the easier and funner it gets. Practicing your speech or performance in the mirror so you really know it will make you less scared when you do it. Then just put on a big smile and nobody will be able to tell if you're still a little nervous! Sometimes all it takes is putting on a brave face and the more you do the more it will feel real and the more comfortable you will be.

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From: Jenna

Help with anxiety & posting videos

Hi Tiffany. I'm a really shy person I kinda have social anxiety to you could say. And i really want to do YouTube videos but im afraid people in school might find out because it has happened a few times and im really scared. What do I do?

Anny

Jenna, I can see how you are conflicted and it is hard because people can be very rude. If you know what you love, go for it and do that. There are always gonna be haters and people that will make fun of you, I get it too! But you can't let them stand in the way of your dreams and what you love. If you want to post videos be proud and confident and show them that you are happy with what your doing. It can be scary, especially starting out, but if you remember WHY you want to make videos and focus on the POSITIVE comments and views that should matter more. And above anything else, do it for YOU, and forget everyone else. Side-note: if you're too scared to post videos maybe you find a way to be on the other side, to help film or create videos with others. :) Good luck!

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From: Samantha Gray

Overcoming Stage-fright

Hey Tiff! Samantha here. I've been wondering, how do you overcome stage-fright and accept/manage criticism?

Anny

It takes time, and practice. The more you do it the more comfortable and confident you'll become. When I had my first performance I was so shaky and nervous. I freaked out about every little thing and every little mistake. After the fact I would beat myself up over lyric slips or things that NO ONE ELSE NOTICED, haha. The sooner you learn to just go up and have fun, the better. Take a deep breathe and just do what you love, I promise it gets easier. As far as criticism, everyone these days is a critic, you will NEVER please them all and that's just how it is. So take the good with the bad and realize you can't make everyone happy. Listen to the love and shut out the noise of the criticism. If only ONE person love you, then do it for them. If you love it, then do it for you! ;)

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From: AJ B. PeÑ

how to be you

iam a 10year old. i want to idolized many people. but i cant because idont have self confidence

Anny

I can't tell you how to be me, but I can encourage you to be YOU! The more you appreciate your talent, and your life, the more confidence you will have. I don't sing to be idolized by many people, I sing because I love to sing! I think people are attracted to me because I'm happy being me! Find what you love and CHASE that!!

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From: Hussin

From a big fan

Hi tiffany how are you ? How was your start singing? Have you ever felt ashamed and fear in the beginning?

Anny

I have always loved singing. I sang in Sunday School and in school plays. I believe God gave me my talent, and that is why I love singing and sharing it! I think there is always some amount of fear when doing something you are unsure of. Anything NEW seems so scary, but the more you do something the more comfortable you get and the more confident you'll be! So have a little faith and be PROUD of what you love!

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