Girlfriend advice

From: Josh Nov 27 2014

Getting The Girl of My Dreams

I've known this girl for 4 years and we dated before but she was finding our relationship more of best-friends than boyfriend/girlfriend. Since then we have been best friends and I love this girl more than anything and I would love to be back with her but all she finds in me in a close best-friend and doesn't feel the same. Tiffany what should I do?

Anny

Josh, I understand how hard it can be to have feelings for someone when they don't feel the same way. It is great you are respecting her wish to just be friends. I've found it is best to give the other person space. Maybe she'll see more than a friend in you someday. Don't close yourself off to meeting new people while you wait though. You never know when you might meet somebody else to be your girlfriend.

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From: scott Dec 14 2014

My Girlfriend is Distant

I need help with my girlfriend. She doesn't talk to me as much as we have before, she says shes always busy and that she's going out of town every weekend. What do I do?

Anny

I know it's hard when relationships go through changes. Perhaps she is really busy or just needs some space. Try to realize she might be at a different place.Try giving her some time, while still being there for her, and see if you can gauge her interest and what she tries to put in the relationship. Perhaps you can try to see when she's available and schedule dates when she's free. Be flexible and see how things go. Either way give it time, give it some space, and try to breathe. If you notice you grow more distant and she is too busy to take time for you, then maybe it's not meant to be. It's scary when things aren't like they were, but in the end it works out how it's supposed to, sometimes together and sometimes not. <3

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From: Robin Dec 22 2014

In Love, but is She?

Tiffany, what piece of advice can you give me with this matter? I'm so crazy in love with this girl, however, it has been complicated to talk to her. We have met a couple of times before and we talk on WhatsApp sometimes, but she doesn't seem to accept a date with me. She doesn't reject me either. What should I do next?

Anny

This is a tricky situation. It's always confusing when there isn't any clear signs as to if they're interested or not. I think if she hasn't accepted a date, she might just enjoy your friendship. I personally never want to reject someone, so I try to let them know I'm not interested as nicely as possible. If she ignores the topic or never answers, I feel that is a pretty big sign right there. If she was interested, she would jump at the opportunity, or be excited about it. I would just wait it out and be there as a friend. Sometimes girls just need time. I feel the best relationships are when you meet someone and they become your best friend and it naturally becomes more. <3

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